Ever met someone and you quickly clicked, like you saw them, felt their aura or something magical happened and you couldn’t feel any negative vibe flowing?
From the conversation you had or lack thereof, the mutual love or abhorrence of something/someone 😂, your casual banter to meaningful musings, prayers together or just simply hanging out with them or in some cases being housemates/classmates/workmates with them? i mean, I could go on but I want to have your full concentration before I start losing your thoughts.
In essence then, I tend to think that’s some next level ideal friendship. No fussing, no fighting just congenial affection.
Let’s be clear here for a minute, when it comes to friendships I tend to suck at it.
But don’t be quick to think that I neglect my pals especially the girls giving you an opportunity to throw judgmental stones at me.
Granted, I have failed a number of times if not most of it.
There’s never a fairytale long lasting friendship that comes falling on my lap. Diddly-squat actually. I have to work for it.
Some common reasons, known to me for fading friendships are distance, new jobs, their lack of online presence etc. And for real, the list is long, wasn’t using the et cetera there just because I’m lazy 😅
Point is, in this century, with all the fast paced mannerisms we face on the daily, it’s safe to say being friends with anyone is hard.
Tell me I’m not alone on this one…
This past week was one week I’ll like to put on online ink to call it the pivotal friendship realization day. As you can tell it’s not just friends, it’s my girlfriends.
So, if you can, go celebrate your friends be it girls or guys (I prefer girls as I relate more to them than anyone) by telling them something meaningful or doing a thing for/with them that they like 😍
To my girlfriends Sophie, Anisa, Jess Denise M my twin, Fifi, Cadeaux, Shamim my Grassie, Lydia Lil M, Miss Amira, Maureen, Cherry, Grace, Yvonne, Phelly, Livia, Sepha, Es, Iris, Nicole, Tina sheesh this list will be long hadn’t realized it when I started writing it… All of you girls who being with you feels like home, I wanna say thank you. Will personally reach out to each of you when I get done with this just to spread my appreciation for your existence this Thursday 😍
So to you my girlfriends, I celebrate you and wish you the DTL coined #GirlfriendsAppreciationDay Hashtag GOALS!
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What I’m loving this week:
• That I get to move to a new house and even though it hasn’t been the easiest thing to do, somehow God made a way 💕
• I completed January with zero meat and alcohol save for one day to celebrate a friend’s birthday just a small quantity for solidarity but other than that it was a meat and alcohol free month for me. I’m extending it further and I want to hold myself accountable. So if any of you wants to join me to push our limits, feel free…. The more the merrier 😍
• This article about how your personality is as a roommate and boy am I stunned I was described to a T! To all my housies… This INFP is so sorry you went/or are about to go thru this! Sheesh! What kind of roommate you are according to your personality type?
Thank you for reading!
💫 Peace Love Light 💫